RECEIVE INCREASING BEAUTY MINISTRY
COLUMNIST: CO-LABORER LADY LORETTA WILSON, theladyretta@verizon.net
( Abigail )
“ Her Name Means = My Father Is Joy”
I Samuel 25: 2 - 43
ARTICLE NO. XI and XII
Welcome to the study of our Sister Abigail, if you read the above scriptures you will understand her story. This is only a recap of her story the lesson for this month is The Woman of Endor. Please send you answers though e-mail by 8/20/10 or join us for our next fellowship on that night from 7 - 9pm. If you reply through e-mail I will respond to your answers that weekend via e-mail. However I much rather see your face, check out the other sites and please make sure you leave a comment on the RIB Ministry Site
Background Information: Abigail; Blockhead, numskull, nincompoop, the words strike us as both harsh and humorous. But any woman married to a man worthy of such labels would have little to laugh about. Abigail must have felt suffocated married to her husband, her father may have thought the wealth Nabal had would be a catch for his daughter little did he know that one day this man would endanger her life. For some time Abigail had heard about David, recently he was her neighbor in the Desert of Maon west of the Dead Sea taken refuge from Saul. Abigail saved two men with quick thinking and anointed words.
1. What do you imagine it was like for Abigail to be married to Nabal on a day-to-day basis?
2. How would you have dealt with a husband like Nabal?
3. What kind of person would you have become?
4. How did Abigail deal with an arrogant man (Nabal) and a angry man (David)?
5. How do you react when someone in authority over you makes a bad choice?
6. If the choice effects you what should you do?
7. How would you like to grow in the way you relate to men?
( The Woman of Endor ) I Samuel 28: 3 - 25
There was no other information on her
Questions
1. The woman of Endor enters this story fearfully, why was she afraid ?
2. Who do you think appears in I Sam. ?
3. Is it really Samuel or a spirit impersonating Samuel ?
4. What do you learn about occult practices from this story ?
5. How if ever, have you consulted spirits ( horoscopes, cards, books, fortune-tellers, Ouija boards) to plan your future or just for fun ?
6. Why do you think the Bible says that nothing like this should be done, even for him ?
7. Consider how kind the woman is to Saul, if someone who practices the occuot can also be kind how do you think that should affect your views in occult practice and practitioners ?
8. Research - Find other scriptures that speak about the occult ?
Scripture = Isaiah 30: 19 -21
Reflections
Monday - Read all the lesson Scriptures
Tuesday - that he protects us against evil
Wednesday - that God doesn’t hide himself from
Thursday - any occult dealings to be confessed and stopped
Friday - to be cleansed and freed from any affects of our dealings
Saturday - pray and remove all occult item from your home and life
Sunday - Attend church and fellowship, share what God has revealed to you
Words of Wisdom WOW! Father forgive me for my involvement in the occult. I want nothing whatever to do with the realm of evil. Draw me out of the darkness and into the light of your presence. Free me from any lingering effects of my involvement and help me and my family to trust you completely for our future. AMEN!
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( Michal )
“ Her Name Means Who Is Like God?”
I Samuel 18:20 -29, 19:11 -17, 2 Samuel 6:16-23
ARTICLE NO. X
Welcome to the study of our Sister Michal, if you read the above scriptures you will understand her story. Please send you answers though e-mail by 5/25/10 or join us for our next fellowship on that night from 7 - 9pm. If you reply through e-mail I will respond to your answers that weekend via e-mail. However I much rather see your face, check out the other sites and please make sure you leave a comment on the RIB Ministry Site
Background Information: Michal stretched herself across the window’s edge. Leaning out as far as she dared, she could see her husband running through the night shadows his movements swift and lithe, like a young stag evading it’s predators. Even if her father, the king, pursued with an army, she was confident he would not catch her husband. She had loved him since the day he calmed the soul of a troubled king.
Questions
1. How would you describe Michal in 1Sam 18 and 19 ?
2. After Michal helped her husband escape, she didn’t see him for over nine years, how did this affect her ?
3. Why do you think Michal responded to this scene of worship as she did ?
4. What was David trying to tell Michal in 2 Sam. ?
5. How did she feel having to choose between her father and her husband?
6. What did Saul think about Michal and David in ! Sam 18 ?
7. What was Michal sister and brother’s name ?
8. Research - What dowry or exchange was given for Michal ?
9. How did Michal help her husband escape, what did she do ?
10. Do you have bitterness, what is your barrier to true worship, has suffering made you tough and shattered you helpless ?
Scripture = Psalm 100: 4
Reflections
Monday - Read all the lesson Scriptures
Tuesday - thank God for being the same today, yesterday, tomorrow.
Wednesday - God gives us the freedom to choose Him.
Thursday - How we allow skepticism to infiltrate our faith.
Friday - Increasing in your awe of Him.
Saturday - Think about your praise time with God, do you have any?
Sunday - Attend church and fellowship, share what God has revealed to you
Words of Wisdom
WOW!
You may not quite be ready to take your joy to the streets, but you can loosen up a bit by raising your hands in prayer. Come out of your comfort zone, go ahead enjoy yourself in God’s presence! If he’s not worth getting excited about them what is?
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( Hannah )
“ Her Name Means Gracefulness or Favor ”
I Samuel 1:1,2&11, 2:19-21
ARTICLE NO. IX
Welcome to the study of our Sister Hannah, if you read the above scriptures you will understand her story. Please send you answers though e-mail by 4/23/10 or join us for our next fellowship on that night from 7 - 9pm. If you reply through e-mail I will respond to your answers that weekend via e-mail. However I much rather see your face, check out the other sites and please make sure you leave a comment on the RIB Ministry Site
Background Information: It was fifteen miles, but every year the journey from Ramah, to worship at the tabernacle of Shiloh seemed longer. At home, Hannah found ways to avoid her husband’s second wife, but once in Shiloh there was no escaping her taunts. Hannah felt like a leaky tent in driving rain, unable to defend herself against the harsh weather of the other woman’s heart.
Questions
1. What response does Hannah’s childlessness cause in each of the people involved ? Hannah herself, Peninah, and Elkanah
2. What caused the change in Hannah in I Sam. 1:18 ?
3. Was she assured of getting what she wanted ?
4. If so, how? If not, why was she comforted ?
5. Describe what it might have been like for Hannah to fulfill her vow God.
6. What does she say about God, and how is it relevant to her life ?
7. What does Hannah’s song of praise to the Lord in I Sam. 2:1 -10 have to do with the events of the story ?
8. Research - in the Old Testament, what affect did infertility have on women and how were they viewed ?
9. Has God meet you in a stressful situation ? Describe =
10. What would your infertility be today?
Scripture = Romans 5: 2 -5
Reflections
Monday - I Samuel 2: 1-10
Tuesday - praise God that he knows our heart.
Wednesday - offer thanks for answered prayer.
Thursday - confess your tendency to pour out your heart to everyone but God.
Friday - ask God to give you strength to trust Him.
Saturday - set aside some time to pray for others that you know who may have issues.
Sunday - Attend church and fellowship, share what God has revealed to you
Words of Wisdom WOW!
May my own prayer be shaped according to your faithfulness becoming less selfish and frantic and more calm and trusting with each day.
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( Ruth ) Her name means “ Friendship ”
Ruth 2 - 4, Matthew 1:5
ARTICLE NO. VIII
Welcome to the study of our Sister Ruth, if you read the above scriptures you will understand her story. Please send you answers though e-mail by 3/26/10 or join us for our next fellowship on that night from 7 - 9pm. If you reply through e-mail I will respond to your answers that weekend via e-mail. However I much rather see your face, check out the other sites and please make sure you leave a comment on the RIB Ministry Site
Background Information:It was harvest time in Israel when Boaz first laid eyes on the young woman. The sun had painted the fields a tawny gold as workers swung their sickles in ever rhythms through the standing grain gathering whatever the harvesters missed. Ruth toiled quickly and efficiently, he noticed her stuffing grain into her coarse sack slung over her shoulders. Strands of black hair escaped her head covering, softly framing olive-colored skin still smooth despite the sun.
Questions
1. What character qualities do you see in Ruth in Chapter 2 ?
2. What is her reputation ?
3. In loyalty to her husband she would marry one of his relatives and have sons, does Ruth attempt this in the story ?
4. What risk did she take when she laid by Boaz’s feet ?
5. What does this say about her ?
6. Where do you see God in this, and do you see yourself in this story ?
7. What did Ruth ask Naomi to let her do ?
8. What did the foreman say about Ruth ?
9. In verse 8, chap.2 why did Boaz say what he said to Ruth ?
10. What did Ruth do that touched the heart of Boaz, this made him make a promise to her ?
11. What did Boaz exchange as an agreement to buy Naomi’s land ?
Scripture = Proverbs 11:25
Reflections
Monday - Ruth chapter 3 & 4
Tuesday - that He provides for those who have no one to do for them.
Wednesday - for the way God used others women to provide for you.
Thursday - any tendency to compete with other women.
Friday - to help you appreciate other women.
Saturday - write a note of love and encouragement to five women around you and give it to them.
Sunday - Attend church and fellowship, share what God has revealed to you
Words of Wisdom WOW! It‘s easy to assume the important women in our lives know how much we cherish them. Cards on special days don‘t always do the trick. We need to verbalize our love, maybe you could start a scrape book and write little notes of things you notice about them. Take picture of your time together make it personal and loving, package it with things she likes and give it at any time not a special occasion.
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February 11, 2010 RECEIVE INCREASING BEAUTY MINISTRY
Columnist: Co-Laborer Lady Loretta Wilson theladyretta@verizon.net ARTICLE NO. VII L O V E
(Happy Valentine’s Day)
What is love, according to the world’s definition love is, “tender affection, desire, strong like, kindness, passionate, romantic affair, elicit enthusiasm, infatuation, and a crush.”
All these emotions in and of themselves are awesome. Each one of these feelings have and hold a memory in each one of our lives. From childhood up to the present day we have experienced at least one of these feelings. In my vast amount of years (smile) I have learned that LOVE can be a wonderful thing and a most hurting thing as well. all within a matter of minutes it could be extremely good or extremely bad. Love in its raw state is indeed intense. We can love to the point of self-denial, whether by not admitting that we are in a one sided relationship or; in giving so much of ourselves that there is nothing left believing that this is what love is. Raw Love is - not processed, refined or treated, inflamed, lacking training or experience, not restrained, brutally realistic, not changed or interpreted, crude.
I have found this to be the perfect example, while working with children I find that they show us the greatest example of love next to God, and at its rawest state. The openness, and their giving nature is amazing to know and experience. Their love is not refined; it is the coal before the diamond, you should really watch them as they turn into brilliants. When a child runs to you and puts their arms around your neck it is inflamed with true excitement to see you again. At that moment they lack fear of what the receiver’s response may be. Even if they have been hurt by the receiver they will give again. Their hearts are open and give out honest interpreted love it can be crude in that; the source that it comes from may hurt the receiver that has been tainted by life’s experiences of a broken heart. Another form of raw love is first love, when the hormones wake up and you find that boy or that girl that takes your breath away and no one understands how you feel but them you are in love. Your heart longs to be with this person all the time, you have to hear their voice and touch them or you will just die, this love is often the one that unfortunately introduces us to the pain of a broken heart. It gives us the understanding that love can and sometimes will hurt. This love is the one that puts the heart guard or callous in place, never allowing the experience of Raw Love to be felt again.
Have you ever been hurt? Of course you have, if you live you’ve been hurt at one time or another. Was it your first boyfriend or girlfriend? Can you still remember how it hurt and you said these very words, I will never let this feeling happen again. But you did; you let it happen again, and again, and the callous got harder, and harder. I’m here to enlighten you on matters of the heart. When you have loved and felt the sting of hurt over and over again, it built up a callous around your heart. When the real thing comes along that LOVE has to have an electric sander plugged into the original source of LOVE which is Jesus Christ, because an emery board just wont do. They have to be willing to sand and buff, and sand and buff at that callous until it gets right down to the raw meat of emotions, and allows you to bleed; which will purify the womb and enable the heart to heal and love raw again.
Is it possible? “Yes” love is worth the fight, it’s worth the weight that it gives you to carry sometimes. Check this out, sometimes the person with the sander is also the one that caused the callous heart, how about that. Here’s the secret don’t tell anybody, love is a gift from God, His intention for us was that we experienced it from a state of purity straight from His heart. No strings attached, can you handle that, we would as husband to wife, parent to child; neighbor to neighbor and family know the unadulterated love that was available for us when we were created to fellowship with Him in the garden. The beauty of this I know first hand not just through my relationships here on earth but through Jesus Christ our Lord.
He held the hands of my sander, the one who worked very hard to help my heart bleed, and now I know the worth, power, delight, and need to Love Raw. I know now without a doubt that a love worth having is a love worth fighting for. Allow LOVE to infect you, which is to overrun a place or site in large numbers and become threatening, harmful, or unpleasant to the callous. To live as a parasite on or in something, this will cause you to bleed and not be hardened again. There is no greater love than the love that caused Jesus to die for us, and because of this love He has given us the ability to love each other. If you don’t have this kind of love in your life wait for it don’t settle, if you have love in your life hold on to it passionately, if the love is rocky purchase a sander, pray for instructions and watch it bleed it is so liberating and sweet.
Tell us about your relationship, what are some of the things you have found that makes it work?
What tips do you know that can enhance a couples journey through love?
Lady Loretta, This is an amazing article about Love. I love the way you always put things in perspective. This is so Awesome. I have witnessed and gone through a few love emotions in my day and I really understand and know what you are describing and yes I have been there and done it all. Family Hurt and relationships and even friends that I loved in the pass. Love is a Powerful word. It can hurt and it can feel special and make you feel so worthy The greatest Love of all is the Love of Jesus Christ who shed his precious Blood on Calvary. I Thank God for this experience, The Spiritual Love. I thank God for Agopy Love, The love of our Ministry, which to me is Family. The Love of my Husband, Granny, Step-Mom & Dad Children and Grands, Sisters, Brothers and extended family. It is wonderful to give and receive Love. Love makes the world go round. If we would do what God says..."Love one another as I have Loved you" we would be a better world. Yes we should wait on the Lord to send us someone to love instead of searching on our own and finding the wrong one because we know that if God sends us a mate then it has to be the right one. My husband was sent to me 31yrs ago but we were not ready for each other yet at that time because we were separated and I married someone else that I thought I loved but I loved him in the Godly way not romantically although we conceived a child together. I stayed in that relationship for some yrs. My heart was somewhere else and he knew it because he said that my husband now was coming back to get me. He did after 21 yrs The Lord bought us back together but out of love and obligation and honoring my vows I still took care of my sick first husband until It was too much for me to handle. After his death in 2004, Jon & I were married in 2005. My first real love and we will be married 5 yrs July 10th 2010 but it seems like a lifetime because we have known each other for over 30yrs. We think that Gods Love comes first in our lives and we are infected with it so much so it has spread through us and caused us to be infected with each other. What makes our relationship work is communication and understanding one another and always showing appreciation and saying I love you every day. This would also be the Tip for others. Honesty is the best Policy in a Love Relationship but in everything put God First. Amen & Hallelujah!! Love you Lady Loretta and sorry my work is late. Thank You for all Your Wisdom!
( Naomi)
Her name means “ My Joy or Pleasant ”
Ruth 1; 4:13 - 17
ARTICLE NO. VI
Welcome to the study of our Sister Naomi, if you read the above scriptures you will understand her story. Please send you answers though e-mail by 1/15/10 or join us for our next fellowship on that night from 7 - 9pm. If you reply through e-mail I will respond to your answers that weekend via e-mail. However I much rather see your face, check out the other sites and please make sure you leave a comment on the RIB Ministry Site
Background Information: She stood like an old tree twisted against the sky. Though Naomi could see for miles from her vantage point high on the road that led from Moab to Judah, she could glimpse nothing at all of her future. She thought about robbers, rumored on the road ahead. What more, she wondered, could possible be taken from her? Her thoughts strayed to the pass..
Questions
1. Choose three or four words to describe what Naomi experienced in 1:3-5.
2. What kind off reception do you think Naomi expected when she returned to her home with Moabite daughter-in-laws ?
3. Who was at fault for Naomi’s circumstance ?
4. Who controlled Naomi’s response to her circumstance ?
5. If you suffered what Naomi did would you be bitter ?
6. Could you love and trust god in Naomi’s situation ?
7. What were her daughter-in-laws names ?
8. What was her husband’s name ?
9. Where did they live and what did the name of the city mean ?
10. What did the daughter-in-law that stayed say to Naomi ?
11. What did Naomi tell the people to call her ?
Scripture = Psalms 71:20
Reflections
Monday - Ruth chapter 1
Tuesday - for creating us with the power to form lasting relationship.
Wednesday - for the variety of friends god has given you.
Thursday - your tendency to be to busy for friends.
Friday - to make you more loving and loyal to those that need you.
Saturday - pick up the phone to renew an old friendship.
Sunday - Attend church and fellowship, share what God has revealed to you
Words of Wisdom WOW!
Help me to cherish the friends you’ve given me and to become the kind of person others will cherish; a women who listens, encourages, and keeps confidences, a women who knows how to laugh, cry, and love others more than her self.
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( Delilah) Her name means “ Dainty One”
Judges Chapter 4:16 - 12
ARTICLE NO. V
Welcome to the study of our Sister Delilah, if you read Judges the sixteenth chapters the forth to twelfth verse you will understand her story. Please send you answers though e-mail by 12/11/09 or join us for our next fellowship on that night from 7 - pm. If you reply through e-mail I will respond to your answers that weekend via e-mail. However I much rather see your face, check out the other sites and please make sure you leave a comment on the RIB Ministry Site
Background Information: Delilah one of great beauty was a prostitute who merely had to deliver the secret of Samson‘s strength to the Philistines. He would be no match for her; born of beauty and schooled in the art of love. She wore Samson down “how can you say you love me. When you won‘t confide in me? This is the third time you have made a fool of meand haven‘t told me the secret of your strength..
Questions
1. Why was Delilah willing to betray Samson?
2. What were her strengths and weaknesses ?
3. If you think back over the biblical women you’ve studied so far, you will notice that several of them used manipulation to get what they wanted. When if ever, have you used manipulation to get what you wanted? ?
4. How common a habit is it for you ?
5. Exactly what manipulative tactics have you used ?
6. Why do you think God chose to use a man like Samson ?
7. What are your strengths and weaknesses ?
8. How much was Delilah paid ?
9. What did being a Nazirite mean ?
10. How many times did she ask for his secret ?
11. What was she told each time ?
Scripture = 2 Corinthians 1:8 -11
Reflections
Monday - Judges 16: 4-22
Tuesday - that he is sovereign, able to use our most tangled relationships to achieve his purpose.
Wednesday - for calling you to be a devoted to him, set apart in a special way
Thursday - any tendency to manipulate.
Friday - to help you surrender any unhealthy relationships and to do what God tells you to.
Saturday - Women today spend millions of dollars cutting, coloring, primping, and styling their hair. But remember, no amount of money or primping can cover up a lack of inner beauty. Before arranging your hair into a becoming style, consider where your inner beauty needs work. Go to Galatians 5: 22 - 23 for some attractive characteristics the Spirit is willing to work in you. Then you‘ll be beautiful outside and in.
Sunday - Attend church and fellowship, share what God has revealed to you
Words of Wisdom WOW!
Lord, you know all the struggles of my heart. You created me in such a way that no one but you can fully satisfy my longings. Yet you also know how easily I am fooled, believing that flesh and blood relationships hold the key to all my needs. Forgive me for the times I’ve put my relationship with ________________________________above my relationship with you. Give me the wisdom, courage, and grace to love you with abandon
(look up the word abandon you will find it to be very interesting in relation to this statement)
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I shall never put my relationship with anyone above that of our Lord & Savior. This was an Awesome study of Delilah.Yet again this makes us take inventory. I never knew there was another meaning for abandon until now. To desist from; cease trying to continue. to yield (oneself) completely, as to emotion. That is deep. <br />
I will yield myself completely through and through. Amen!!
( Jael ) Her name means “ A wild or Mountain Goat”
Judges Chapter 4 & 5
ARTICIAL NO. IV
Welcome to the study of our Sister Jael, if you read Judges the forth and fifth chapters you will understand her story. Please send you answers though e-mail by 11/13/09 or join us for our next fellowship on that night from 7 - 9 pm. If you reply through e-mail I will respond to your answers that weekend via e-mail. However I much rather see your face, check out the other sites and please make sure you leave a comment on the RIB Ministry Site
Background Information: Jael watched uneasily through the flaps of her tent as clouds swept the blue from the shy and rain fell like a shroud across the horizon. She remembered the stories of Moses and she people he had led across the wilderness. As she saw this figure running towards her she wondered, Israelite or Canaanite? His identity might reveal the way the winds of the battle were blowing.
Questions
1. How would you describe her character, what was her home life like ?
2. Where is Jael’s song located ?
3. How would you characterize Deborah and Jael as being the same type of woman ?
4. What was God’s role in these events ?
5. Use three adjectives to describe Jael before she kills Sisera, from 4:17 - 20 ?
6. Why do you think Jael did what she did?
7. How much do you think her brutal culture had to do with her action ?
8. Why do you think Deborah praised Jael ?
9. What was Sisera’s mother’s thoughts, what was she looking for ?
10. What was the relevance of the milk that was given ?
( Extra Credit - How was Jael related or connected to Moses ? )
Scripture = 2 Corinthians 1:8 -11
Reflections
Monday - Judges 5
Tuesday - that the enemies of our soul be defeated.
Wednesday - that we can be instruments of deliverance fro others.
Thursday - any tendency toward passivity in your struggle against sin and satan.
Friday - to give you wisdom and discernment in the spiritual battle.
Saturday - Ephesians 6, Review the check list
a) belt of truth - any small dishonesties b) breastplate of righteousness - are you seeking to be more Christ like ? c) the shoe of the gospel of peace - reconciliation God and man d) shield of faith - are you showing that God is loving and powerful e) helmet of salvation - a gift has to be received, wear it boldly f) sword of the spirit - reading and praying, the scripture helps us take the offensive (fight daily)
Sunday - Attend church and fellowship, share what God has revealed to you
Words of Wisdom
WOW!
This week take some time for a wardrobe check. Make sure you aren’t missing anything vital, without which you will be more vulnerable to attack, putting on the full armor is the most important thing you will ever do on a daily basis. And yes you should check each one everyday don’t take it for granite that you are all covered.
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Praise God Lady Loretta, You are so awesome and I am Honored to have a Spiritual Mother like you.<br />
I have taken a look in the mirror and I have some of the Garments on but I don't have them all on.I have to be real because God knows, I am working on myself though and I thank you and Pastor for keeping us in check by feeding us with manna from on high and reminding us that we should examine ourselves to see if we are where we should be in Christ. I get weak a lot of times when I am bombarded by so much that is around me and I just say forget this or that and I'm tired and hurting so I don't do what is required of me. I am going to try harder to press my way, and stop letting people and circumstances dictate my future.
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( DEBORAH ) Her name means Honey Bee
Judges: Chapters 4:1-10 & 5:7
ARTICIAL NO. III
Welcome to the study of our Sister Deborah, if you read Judges the forth and fifth chapters you will be blessed by her story. Please send your answers through e-mail by 10/9/09 or join us for our next fellowship on that night from 7 - 9pm. If you reply through e-mail I will respond to your answers that weekend via e-mail. However I much rather see your face, check out the other sites and please make sure you leave a comment on the RIB Ministry Site.
Background Information: Jericho had lain in ruin for two hundred years. The Israelites had swept across the country like a storm of locusts, devouring everything in their path, somehow the native survived and their idolatry strangled Israel’s faith. Sisera iron plated chariots terrified Israel, they felt smugly secure since Israel was being led by a woman that they could over throw them. But they forgot to account for the strategic power of a woman of faith. Deborah was a prophetess, she summoned Barak to go and told him how destroy Sisera and lead Israel but he refused to go without her.
Questions
1. How long had Israel been oppressed by the Canaanites and Sisera?
2. Why did Barak say he wanted Deborah to go with him, what was her response?
3. Besides a prophetess what was Deborah’s position in Israel?
4. What was her husband’s name?
5. How many men did Deborah tell Barak to take and from what tribes?
6. Where did Sisera flee to and what was his fate?
7. What did she call herself?
8. When a woman succeeds today, how is she typically responded to by men?
9. What do you need to do to vecome more like Deborah?
Psalms 20:7
Some trust in chariots and some in horses but we trust in the name of the Lord our God.
Reflections
Monday - Judges 4
Tuesday - Speak clear to his people, say what you mean.
Wednesday - Pray that God sends Prophets, men and women.
Thursday - If you are reluctant about anything, listen for God’s voice.
Friday - Ask for help in discerning his voice.
Saturday - Review
Sunday - Attend church and fellowship, share what God has revealed to you.
Words of Wisdom
It’s hard to listen to two pieces of music at the same time and enjoy what you hear, one may not be pleasing to your spirit but how would you know with all the noise, there needs to be a clear channel to hear what is said or played. Likewise it’s hard to listen to the voice of God and satan at the same time. Ask for a distinguishing spirit and choose.
What are you thoughts on this?
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Hi Aunt Retta. Ok here goes how would I know what sprit to ask for, What does it mean to ask for a distinguishing spirit? I want to honot the Lord but sometimes i may ack or to things that are not right like drink coolers and say things I should not say. I am saved because I accepted the LORD as my personal savior, but when you try to do right some people try to keep u down and they say they are saved. I don't want to judge but I do sometimes.
Lady Loretta
Oct-10 9:06am
Bless the Lord Theresa:<br />
<br />
Sometimes we have stuggles that are just un-founded, I want to deal with the coolers. God doesn't care about you drinking coolers, the question it why do you drink them? We would hope that what we do has reason so, do they bring reason to your life? Do they supply love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control because these are the fruits that we should desire to drink. Drinking coolers is not the point but does it add anything to your life? Theresa the only spirit we should ever ask for, long for, is the Holy Spirit, He and He alone will lead you to the truth and to distinguish is to just know the difference between two things and thats why we have the Word and teachers to help us. If you really want to do right before the Lord there is nothing that can stop you, look at Deborah she had a nation to watch over but her trust was in God not man or herself. No more excusses Theresa, stand up and be strong in the Lord.<br />
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Mush Love
September 1, 2009 RECEIVE INCREASING BEAUTY / LETS TALK ABOUT IT
( LOVE’S ACCEPTED CONDITIONS ) What’s Love got to do with it?
ARTICLE NO. II
In my earlier years I didn’t want to have anything to do with this thing called love. I hadn’t witnessed to many relationships that expressed what I thought love should be. Though I did have an inkling through family members, mother, grand-mother, siblings, all doing the best they could to show love with what they knew. However; even that was not enough. We all have experienced some sort of satisfaction, completion or fulfillment in our lives, so we know when something is missing……..
This is how it is when love is not pure, love can have a whole lot of different meanings when it’s not pure. We are taught from a very young age that love is conditional. Male and female alike are trained by the things and people around them, for instance in my family I was trained to be an independent woman. Have your own, make your own, I was unintentionally trained how to survive without making those who should be responsible own up to their responsibilities.
So; we are now victims of “what’s love got to do with it?” What does love have to do with accepting the fact that your father has left you? What does love have to do with mothers working two jobs and grand-moms raising the children? What does love have to do with fathers, uncles, so called uncles, brothers, cousins, friends, or neighbors, taking your gift without your permission? What does love have to do with sleeping around being an expression of it? We train our children to accept these same conditions and then wonder why. Why does my son, my daughter do and or accept bad things? Brothers/Sisters, you walk out, you hit, you tear down verbally, you cheat, you stay and use. And then you say I love you, look at all I have done for you, I stayed didn’t I? But Sisters/Brothers; you accept, and accept, and accept the conditions and then ask why. Our lives are distorted and have been since sin entered in. We have no idea what love has to do with it until we know, understand, and have experienced the LOVE of God. John 3:16 tells us God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son, that whoever believes in Him will not perish but have everlasting life. The condition is none, He loved us so much that He gave His only to get us back, love doesn’t abuse, take your money, walk out, cheat, hit you, tear you down, or lie. and then say but I love you……….
In Galatians 5:19-21 it talks about the flesh warring against the spirit, and the acts of sinful nature. Each thing listed in these scriptures describe our conditioning to accepting fleshly love and abuse as real. But Ephesians 3:17-19 says so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love. May have power together with all the saints to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ. And to know this love that surpasses knowledge that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. The Lord will teach you what love has to do with it, if and only if you want Him to. Read-1 Corinth. 13:3-13 if I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love I am nothing. Love is patient, love is kind, does not envy, does not boast, is not proud, is not rude, is not self-seeking, is not easily angered, keeps no record of wrong, has no delight in evil but rejoices in truth, love alwaysprotects, trust, hopes, preservers. Some things will fade away but three will remain, faith, hope, and love and the greatest is LOVE.
That’s what love has to do with it.!
What are your thoughs on this?
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What’s Love got to do with it?
My!! this is indeed thought provoking and stirring in so many ways thank God for his abiding love toward us.this article is in deed a Winnner!!!<br />
keep it coming ,Lady Wilson.
Renee Anderson
Sep-10 6:25pm
Wow! very eye opening because of our life and up bringing before Christ. Unfortunately most of us still haven't grasped the 1Cor 13 concept of God's love even still myself included. Love has alot to do with it in Christ only, without Christ we are nothing and can be nothing. Our sin nature will not allow anything other then the ways of sin. Thank you for this message because now I can see again where I need to look to Jesus for direction in how to Love in him.
Theresa
Oct-9 12:31pm
Wow I thought I new what love was but when I read more into it I found that I did not now how to realy love. Yes I can and have said I love you to Lee and my children and I have also done some of the other things that love was not, but now I thing if love does not come from your mind body and spirit it may not mean a thing I pray I do better in spreading my love to my family and friends.
June 26, 2009 Recieving Increasing Beauty Ministry - Let's Talk About It
Y O U R S O U L
COLUMNIST: CO-LABORER LADY LORETTA WILSON
This is the first several columns that will be published through this summer. These Article’s are open for your thoughts. study, encouragement, and comments.
ARTICLE NO.1
Deuteronomy 6:4,5 Hear, o Israel the Lord our God is one Lord. And thou shall love the Lord your God with all thy heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might
For the last month we have been exploring the makings of the (soul ), what it consist of and how it functions in relation to the body and the spirit. Pastor has explained that the soul is divided into five parts, the mind, the will, the intellect, the emotions, and the imagination. Lets see what the body, soul, and spirit are. Webster says your body is (the complete material structure or physical form of a human being). The Bible says your body is that which was God formed, it causes us to be related to the world. Your soul is (the complex of human attributes that manifest as consciousness, thought, feeling, and will, regarded as distinct from the physical body). The Bible says your soul is that which is the conscious living, that which relates us to ourselves. Your spirit is (the vital force that characterizes a human being as being alive, sense of self, a paranormal, a supernatural being that does not have a physical body). The Bible says your spirit is given to us by God, that which makes us conscious of God, His breath.
When spirit and body joined together man became a living soul, your soul was/is the meeting place that now makes us a triune being. Animals do not have a spirit, they are not conscious of God, they can not be saved. As much as we would like Fluffy to go to heaven that just will not happen.
Adam in the garden was triune just as we are, the difference was that before the fruit situation (the fall) his soul was pure knowing only good. He still used all components of his soul, with his mind he was able to house the will where he decided to obey God; choosing to commune with God everyday, with his intellect he learned, gathered information and understood who his creator was. He was able to name every creature that walked upon the face of the earth. Adam tended the fields and kept the garden in perfect order. With his emotion he loved God. Adam understood love in it’s purist state no middle man, no cross, no blood, no death, no separation, they sat in the evening and talked can you imagine that conversation the knowledge he must have obtained? With his imagination he envisioned wo-man someone like him to love in a body form, someone to hold and make love to, someone to reproduce himself with, someone to share this awesome and beautiful relationship that he had with God. And for awhile they did love God with all their body, soul, and spirit. With pure hearts and minds what other wonderful things would they have talked about and imagined?
In Deut. we can see how God longs for us to be with him in our complete state body, soul, and spirit. However it is the soul that makes the decision as to whether we will allow the spirit man or the natural man to rule at any given time in our lives. God longs deeply for a Garden experience with us, and this is why prayer is so vital to our soul. When we talk to God all the soul’s components are involved, the mind, will, intellect, emotions, and imagination. Where is your soul?
Read = 1 These. 5:23, 2 Corinth. 5:17, Eph.. 5:26
What are your thoughts on this?
Let’s talk about it
I am not sure, I want it to be on the Lord all the time but other things get in the way. Like looking for a house, my children, there safty, will I make it to heaven, or does the Lord even love me. All of there things go through my mind. So I can only say my soul is all over the place. I thought it was very nice, it made me think that I sould read more of my word. I like to talk, sometimes I pray more than I read, wather I am beggin or asking for forgiveness of something I have done wrong. I don't know. I only know that I believe in the Lord my God.
Valerie D Harvey
Jul-2 9:15pm
My Lord what an Awesome Article this is. This is so powerful. the way you explain the functions of the Soul and Spirit, I never looked at it this way until Pastor started this series and now you sum it up on a whole nother level meaning the same thing. I just love this series and this article is so encouraging and makes you really take inventory of your soul. I try to keep my mind, will,intellect,imagination and emotions in tune with the spirit but sometimes I fail. I know I have to line them up and in order to do that I have to get rid of some stuff. I will work on this so that I can be more affective in our Ministry.<br />
I love you both for telling it like it is. This is some good food. Thank You Lady Loretta!
Lady Loretta
Jul-3 11:25am
Praise the Lord Theresa,<br />
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Thank you for your comments; If other things get in the way of you serving God then He doesn't come first. For some reason we tend to think that we can obtain and maintain in our on strength. However, the Word says we can do all things through Christ no where in there does it say through yourself. Only God is omni-present, where ever your chidren are He is right there. you have to trust Him, where ever your your home is He can unlock the doors for you to get it. What has your concentration being on everything but Christ gotten you so far? I'll tell you, further from God and out of reach of your goals that's what. Commit yourself to the Lord and put some action to your prayers, read the Word and serve God with your mind, will, intellect,emotion, and imagination.<br />
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Love You
Lady Loretts
Jul-3 11:49am
Hello Sis. Valerie,<br />
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Thanks for the encouragement. I would like to say to you, remove the word try and replace it with I will do better. If we keep our minds stayed on Jesus there is no room for anything thing else. You know God like to take our stuff, He really does, this lets Him know that we trust Him more than we trust ourselves in handling our situations. Just imagine how free your Soul would be in being affective in the ministry, your home, your life and all that concerns you. Push through my sister , Push through, it is possible.<br />
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Love You!
PASTOR WILLIE WILSON SR
Jul-14 1:41am
YOUR ARTICLE IS AWESOME AND WELL THOUGHT OUT BRINGING US TO A POINT OF REFLECTION AND DECISION, AS YOUR PASTOR /HUSBAND I am godly proud of your efforts to challenge and chenge hearts for Christ ,continued success in your ministry
Adriane Banks
Jul-20 5:54pm
I love how Lady Loretta explains the relationship Adam had with GOD in refrence to his soul.It encourages me to strive for that same relationship with him,just thinking about in gives me such joy.To know he desires that from us all ,tells us how awesome and loving our GOD is.He only wants the best for his children.I have to give him ALL the praise and honor.Thank you JESUS an Thank you Lady Loretta .
Jamilla B
Aug-16 3:28pm
I would like to say a few words about a woman who never knew me. When I first came to hear speak, at New St. John. She spoke on my stituation of abuse. How she said, "things you never told anyone. Afraid to tell anyone. Carrying this secret around for years. Me, not knowing how it was effecting me." I heard her say we are going to set the captives free. That was over 7 yrs ago. And she is still able to get me freed up some other stuff in my trunk. I understand that I do not give you much rewards or gratitude of what you spiritually or mentally do to me. But I am writing here today, to say, you were a god sent. He allowed you to step in my mess to get it cleaned up. Your love for women is awesome. Especially for you and I who never really like being around women. But you have shown greatness in your self, that you allow us to see and grow from it. I can go on and on about how God uses you to be a blessing for women. I forward to the lesson that God will give you for me or for others. Love with much respect to you. Smiling Jamilla B.
Jamilla
Oct-8 6:42pm
Deborah was very Bold. She had confidents in God. Kknowing He would be there for them. She was obedient. She was wise in her own right. She knew to give God the Praise and the Honor. Something that I need to do on a daily basic. She knew her place.